February 10, 2011
Always Play Like VIPs are Watching -- Because They Are.
By Jake Chapman, Showcase U Co-founder
Very Important People are watching you every game you play, whether you realize it or not. If you want to be taken seriously as collegiate prospect, you need to be aware that your performance, behavior, body language, effort and sportsmanship are always under review. Letting your guard down and having a "moment" may cause an observer to form an opinion of you that doesn't necessary reflect who you are as a person or athlete.
We are all human. We make mistakes, have bad games and get frustrated in the heat of competition, but the best athletes have a SHORT TERM memory and are able to shake off a bad play and respond with greatness. I've talked with several scouts and college coaches who have told me that their first impressions carry a lot of weight when recruiting. If they are there to watch you play, THEY ALREADY KNOW YOU ARE A GOOD PLAYER. They want to see what separates you from the rest of their prospects. Make sure your "separators" are positive attributes...and remember, they show up on game film and video too.
So, besides colleges coaches, who are the other VIPs that have their eyes on you? Let's discuss:
Your Family
Parents and siblings are your biggest fans and at times, your biggest critics. You are a reflection of your parents and there is no better way to make them glow with pride than to hustle, play fair and positively encourage your teammates. Stay focused, disciplined and resilient in the heat of the battle and steer clear of behavior that could bring shame and embarrassment to you and your loved ones.
Your Coaches
In the world of college recruiting, your most important advocates are your high school coaches. They play a crucial role in your success and can positively and/or negatively impact your chances to play athletically at the college level. During your career, they spend as much time with you as your family and friends. They see you how you handle adversity and can vouch for your character. Make it easy for them to confidently look a college coach in the eye and give an enthusiastic testimonial on your behalf.
Your Teammates
If you haven't heard it before, one of the most fulfilling things to have in competition is the respect of your peers. Being a good teammate is displaying character when you are having a great game or the worst game of your life. Again, no one is perfect. True competitors SHOULD be upset with poor performance. If you are reading this blog, there is a good chance you are one of the better players on your team. Set a good example example for the players that look up to you. Show the rookies that you respect the game, always play hard and instill a positive and encouraging behavior that defines your program and leaves a lasting impact.
Your Fans
As a father of 2 young future stars, I've noticed that my sons watch a high school "ball game" much differently than I. They lock in on their favorite player, which probably includes you, and they watch your every move. They watch you before the game. They watch you in huddles, on benches and in dugouts. They observe your body language, copy your mannerisms, style and attire....and yes...they can even read your lips. You are a role model and your actions and behaviors influence the youth in your community. It is an HONOR to represent your school in competition and if you are lucky enough to participate in front of supportive fans, please do so with class.